Sethoriath, 41

Done. I've tried so many dating sites over the past three years, it's insane. I'm tired of being alone, but unfortunately being an INTJ, that's fairly normal.

I'm a SWM gamer geek seeking a SWF gamer/sci-fi princess. I love video games. I see them as more of a multifaceted art form than just pure entertainment, although they do provide entertainment as well. Yes, I play WoW, although I'm about to move over to the new Star Wars MMO that's about to come out. No, playing WoW or anything like it does not consume me. If I have to choose between going out with someone one night and playing WoW, I choose going out with someone every time. While I would like to find someone that shares this passion that I have, I'm not silly enough to believe it's a dealbreaker or a requirement. I also love movies (I'll go for about anything other than horror), music (everything from hard rock and metal to classical), TV (Firefly, How I Met Your Mother, House, etc), bowling, putt putt, browsing book stores...

I really want to find someone that just gets me. Someone that would become my best friend eventually, and would lead to a long term relationship. A friend asked me if I really knew what it was I was looking for in a woman, and in a relationship. I said, "I'm looking for the Trudy Monk to my Adrian Monk, the Kaylee Frye to my Simon Tam, the Winifred Burkle to my Wesley Wyndam-Pryce. The person that you fall in love so deeply with, they become an essential part of you that, for better or worse, you can't even bear to imagine being apart from. Of course, this would need to be reciprocated, which is the hardest part."

I'm tired of just being ignored and passed over. I'd never ignore someone I felt even a partial connection with, as I cherish every friend I make in life. I'm no Brad Pitt. I'm a bigger guy. I've been told I'm cute and handsome, but I would rather just let others make their own judgment on that.