Mrgatsby, 43

"I'm the most honest man I know" I work in the new york media, which is a headache in itself. However, I keep myself grounded by writing, listening to to Dean Martin/Tony Bennett/Various forms of Jazz.

I try to go to a museum at least once a month, keep my brain recharged. I enjoy strolling around central park during autumn and winter and take in the tranquil silence, people watch. You could learn more about a person just on body language alone, than words ever could allow you to learn.

I'm a writer, observer of life, and an appreciator of simpler things. I embrace the city for the cultural melting pot it is, and embraced the fact that there is still so much more I have to learn about it.

I love my family, we're small but extremely close and I feel they keep me grounded and not over my head.

I've always felt I was born in the wrong era. I've been told I'm an old soul in a young man's body. I believe in the more traditional forms of courtship, bringing flowers, taking a walk through the city, holding the door open for her.

What I would look for is a woman who looks for and appreciates traditional chivalry. Doesn't mind a guy offering his jacket on a cold night, or holding the car door open for her. It seems like that sense of appreciation is lost in the more modern type of woman.

PS: If you can guess the headline quote correctly, bonus points for you!