Ninjon, 34

I’m a study in contrasts. Sometimes I’m flashy, sometimes I’m quiet. I love the buzz of big cities, but am very content staying home too. I’m geeky about technology (especially video gaming), less so about personal style. Finally, I have a weird sense of humor, a fierce Starbucks addiction, and a passion for Chinese, Mexican, and Indian food—the spicier the better.

One of my defining characteristics is my love of travel. I especially love spending the day in New York, but can really dig into Disney World too. Someday I’d like to visit the seven wonders of the ancient world, starting with the Great Wall of China, and working my way down the list.

I’m interested in meeting a guy who is completely honest about who he is—I don’t care if he’s flamboyant or not. Drag is fine, as long as he occasionally takes a break. I’d be willing to try dating a Bi guy, though I’m not sure how well that would work in a serious relationship.

I’m attracted to men who are tall and lean, and somewhat feminine like me. Emotionally, I’m drawn to people who value connection and closeness at least as much as a physical relationship. Does that sound like you? I hope so.