Ashcon, 45

I am first and foremost a father to my two little boys, ages 2 and 3, they come before anything else in my life. If kids aren't your thing you may as well turn back now, mine are my world.

I enjoy getting out to concerts, staying in and watching a movie or playing games, simply talking, reading, or just plain getting out for the day and seeing where that goes. I have a couple of tattoos and would someday like to get more. I also have my tongue and ears (once each) pierced but that's about all I'd want to do with that. I'm a music lover, mostly electro/industrial (ex: KMFDM, Front Line Assembly) but I'm open to some other things. I really can't stand country or rap/hip hop. I've fallen out of touch with most music over the past few years, kids will do that to you, but I'm trying to catch up. I've been working for the same company for nearly 10 years now, slowly working my way up the ladder on my way towards global dominat... (probably). I really enjoy my job and I work with some fantastic people. It's a constant challenge, but hey, life is no fun without a challenge, right? I like to think of myself as a big kid, I'm responsible with what needs to be done (taking care of my kids, paying the bills, laundry, dishes, yard work, etc...), but when that's all done I have no problem just having fun. You could say I'm a bit of a geek, though I'm always told that I don't look the part.

I'm looking for not only a partner but a best friend, someone who I can talk to for hours and simply enjoy their company. I'm not looking for a fling, that's just not the kind of person I am, I'd like to meet that mythical "special someone" who I can share the rest of my life with. It's a long shot, I know, but hey, that woman has to be out there, somewhere, right?

I want to find someone who can still be a kid at heart. A sense of humor