Male gamer looking for Miss Right

[dragonmaster12]

Hey all I'm a 20 year old man who loves video games and is tired of getting heartbroken I know though that sometimes it's unavoidable. I'd like to date somebody who understands me and my nerdiness. I can do other things as well though so if you think you're the right person for me then hmu (Females only please)

[ataliaofseraph]

dragonmaster12 wrote: Hey all I'm a 20 year old man who loves video games and is tired of getting heartbroken I know though that sometimes it's unavoidable. I'd like to date somebody who understands me and my nerdiness. I can do other things as well though so if you think you're the right person for me then hmu (Females only please)



How many times can you have your heart broken at age 20? I hate to say it but gaming can cause problems in relationships even between two gamers. Relationships take time and effort as well as compromise and compassion. Being a gamer is in direct opposition to all those goals. Gaming expends a lot of the time and energy people should be putting forward into a relationship. And when was the last time you saw any one being compassionate or compromising in call of duty or wow or halo? Being a woman I can tell you that being in a relationship pulls me away from gaming as it should. While I have often liked men who gamed, when I see them engaged in gaming most time their behavior is a huge turn off. Last guy I was interested in cut my conversation short despite me being upset bc in his own words, "I have an event in 12 minutes." Any woman who sticks around after a comment like that isn't worth being with. Most gamer guys when they are fortunate to find a woman who has interest in them need to treat the woman as if she is the Mega Boss on the highest level. They need to work to get to her and once they get there they need to be on point and know their game. Spending time talking about ---- and the last family guy episode on xbox live is not the way to prepare for being with a woman. Put the controller down and learn a little bit about the real women out there. Not Samus and Lara Croft. I know I will get trolled for this but w/e I am a real gamer chick and this is what I think and how I feel.

[dragonmaster12]

`Thank you for being honest with me and I honestly do my best to put my real life first when it comes to relationships. I've not gamed in a while because of this fact. I'm not just about gaming though, yes it is a passion of mine but I am passionate about other things as well as gaming. I just wish that women would take the time to get to know that side of me because that side is very different and interesting.

[historyboy07]

`Hey DM12

From one gamer to another, I thought i'd shoot a thought or two given the subject. Dating, relationships, meeting people all of that is really an awesome part of life and at 20 your just starting (your fear should really be your excitement)

Now I'm no Mel Gibson so I can't read a woman's mind but I think what it just comes down to is being a man, for example so many guys go out of there way to "impress" a girl like if they meet a girl they let her guide the whole date, choose the movie, choose what to do and sadly they think thats how they're going to win her over! (sheeez if you haven't figured it out disney lied)

A girl doesn't want to BE the adventure she wants to be TAKEN on one...don't be shy to add playfulness and teasing too as long as its classy your fine. I know gaming can be a total blast but you gotta balance life vs leveling...I personally never play when I have people over, because its my job to host everyone and engage everyone in conversation and ideas. A guy who loves people is loved by people....its ok to be nerdy (heck I'm a huge one) I guess what I'm trying to get at is that its not a girl or guy that will change your life its your own view of how you see yourself and how creative you are...its up to you to create the adventure not ask for one.

best of luck

HB07