I'm an ultra-girly, skirt-wearing, bi blue-eyed blonde with hair so long I have to move it before I sit. I have a loving, secure, open marriage with my husband of 8 yrs. I'm not here for sex, I'm here because I'm kind of clingy and like to be around people. I'm looking for someone who's open to a new friendship with poly options on the table. Just want a pen-pal? I'm okay with that. I send long emails. Cuddle time? Let chat and see if we mesh; we can move forward from there. I've been in poly relationships in the past (though not recently). I know how important communication is, and making sure that everyone feels special. I value others for being their unique, induplicable selves, good and bad, because rain can't be rain if it's not wet. Hubby is shy, quiet, and isn't looking to be involved se---lly, but you'll cross paths often and should be able to be friendly with him. He's a pretty serious all-around gamer, favoring Playstation consoles, Nintendo handhelds, Steam, and D&D. I love sitting in on gaming sessions, even though I'm just a casual gamer myself. You gotta be okay around kids (we have 2), local to the eastern WA/Idaho panhandle area if you plan to cuddle, drug-free, and non-smoking. I might make an exception for occasional social smokers, but no 420 around me, ever. I care more about the person than the plumbing, so any gender is welcome, but I have had more experience with men. I'm quirky, bookish, a chatterbox (curse the character limit!), open-minded about almost everything, sentimental, old-fashioned, and easily distracted by pretty or puzzling things. I love reading, writing, music, history, casual gaming, laughing with friends, talking all day and night, art, science, astrology, astronomy, and I want to learn to dance. I love learning new things and meeting new people, so drop me a line.